Project Description
I offer Sexological Bodywork sessions in person in Shoreham-By-Sea or online.
Sexological bodywork, also referred to as Somatic Sex Education, is designed to support people in having an empowered relationship with their bodies and their eroticism. It is common for people to carry repressed trauma, fear, shame, insecurity, negative social and cultural conditioning, and suppression around sexuality. Sexological Bodywork is an opportunity to work through, clear and release this and to reclaim your sacred birthright – to embody your full orgasmic and pleasure potential.
Sexological Bodywork is for you if you are feeling disconnected with your sexuality, dissatisfaction in or fear of intimacy, or numbness with your genitals.
Sexological Bodywork is for you if you would like to be experiencing deeper and more authentic intimate connection with self and with partners, a greater sense of freedom, pleasure, joy, bliss, aliveness in your own life and in your intimate relationships. We may use tools such as embodiment practices, breath, sound and movement.
The sessions are co-created, held in sacred space, free from any expectation or judgement, to support healing and integration of the body, mind and soul, allowing for sexual and erotic awakening.
I am clothed, erotic touch is one way and gloves are used for intimate touch. I am part of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers and I follow their Code of Ethics which can be found here.
There is an initial online Zoom consultation. Then in the first session together, we set the intentions so that you can recieve clear guidance on what you may be finding challenging, before holding the somatic session in sacred space. The care extends beyond the session as I prioritse integration and the aftercare so that you can implement the transformation that takes place in our sessions into your every day life.
These treatments are for you if:
– You are wishing to connect to your sexuality
– You are struggling to feel pleasure in your body including challenges with orgasm / ejaculation
– You find yourself in your head during sex
– You find yourself dissatisfied in your relationships
– You want to bring more sacredness, devotion and spirituality into your sex life
– You want to break free from unhelpful addiction to pornography
– You want to release shame, insecurity and stories that you feel are holding you back from the pleasure that you really want
– You want to feel confident and carefree in your body
– You want to be able to own your desires and what you really want in and out of the bedroom
– You want to learn how to set and hold your boundaries with ease
– You want to feel empowered and confident in your sexuality
Sessions are online or in person in Shoreham-By-Sea.
For booking & enquiries: contact@shantisholistichealing.com
For testimonials or information on my other offerings, please visit: https://www.facebook.com/ShantisHolisticHealing
Sexological Bodywork – Prices
There is an initial 30-minute Zoom consultation with an investment of £50 to identify a clear pathway for your transformation. If we choose to work together, this consultation fee will be taken off the price for further sessions.
This work creates long-term transformation, therefore I recommend to book 3 sessions so that you can receive and integrate the changes into your life.
In person
1 x 3 hour session – £360
3 x 3 hour sessions – £972 (10% off)
‘I have had many sessions with Shanti and if I were to name the most compelling feature of those it would be Shanti’s phenomenal ability to hold space; such warmth and openness that really allows me to feel safe, held and totally grounded into my body. Shanti’s calm and friendly presence bring with it such easy rapport and a deep trust that is so important in this work. Her amazing intuition with touch is a wonderful gift as is the empathic approach she has developed to all aspects of her offerings in this field. It is a great pleasure to recommend Shanti, she is a wonderful human being and really has so much to offer anyone looking to connect their body, mind and spirit.’
‘I came to Shanti’s bodywork sessions with awareness of unresolved trauma energy held in my body and impacting my own intimacy and sexual elationships with others. Shanti was extremely professional and created a safe, gentle and titrated environment for me to connect with and listen more to my body and the energy it was holding. With her guidance I was able to interpret the language of the body sensations as words, memories and experiences that have been impacting my intimate life for so long. I always felt supported and cared for and left sessions regulated, calm and aware. She really embodies holding space on this sensitive journey into the soma and parts of the body that are delicate and often shrouded with guilt, grief and disgust. I uncovered deep truths and the ability to slow down and really listen to my body to support my own healing. When I felt safe to really listen it was incredible how my body began to confide in me and tell me what I needed to do. Thank you Shanti. I highly recommend your somatic sexual body work sessions.’
‘I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending Shanti as a wonderful practitioner of Sexological Bodywork. I developed a great sense of trust with her very quickly, a vital foundation for this type of work. She is able to hold space really beautifully, to listen very deeply and without judgement. It is rare that I have felt so ‘seen’ by anyone, and this opened the doorway for a profound healing experience with her.’
‘I’ve now had a number Sexological Bodywork sessions with Shanti, I couldn’t recommend her enough, it has been amazing. I’ve always carried a lot of issues around guilt and found the whole sexual realm of life to be traumatic and damaging. To be honest I probably wouldn’t have done anything like this if I didn’t already know Shanti, I’d have been too scared to even look into it, but I’m so glad I did. The fear would have been totally unfounded.
Shanti holds a really beautiful safe space, with clear boundaries and intentions set together, so you always know where you are going in each session. The space she holds is one of love and total acceptance, which is a key part of the treatments. The treatments have been deep and really quite varied, and are tailored to fit each time.
After a number of sessions, I can say a lot of the shame I carried has gone. My feelings and approach to the subject of sex is different, not so traumatic, more natural, and permissive. The guilt and dislike of myself, physically and as a person, my judgey projections are slowly losing their grip as I employ the different tools I have learnt in the sessions. It has changed the way I approach life in many ways, and with less confusion and much more freedom.
So, if you are wondering? make an enquiry, it’s worth it. I’m glad I did.’
‘Shanti has a very intuitive and healing touch. I find her intention and presence to be deeply comforting, allowing me to lead with a sense of safety, and at the same time she seems to know me the exact touch I require.
During the session, her guidance allowed me to access sensations and emotions that I was previously unaware of, and yet within the sanctuary of the space created by Shanti these emotions and memories were allowed to gently surface. I am deeply grateful for Shanti’s guidance and wisdom. I feel seen by her in a compassionate and very human way. ‘
‘I really experienced that Shanti has a very compassionate and understanding approach.
I appreciated that boundaries were discussed and agreed upon at the start of each session, and Shanti maintained these boundaries perfectly.
I always felt safe during the sessions which helped me to express and be with what I was thinking and feeling and let go of emotions such as shame.’
‘I received a profoundly deeply healing experience with shanti after having a few sexological bodywork sessions. Shanti held such a safe space to allow for whatever needed to arise and be shared and from this place, I have been able to bring a sense of curiosity and wonder into my practices, my body feels so much more alive and open and it’s feels so wonderful to be creating such a deep relationship with myself from this space. Thank you shanti, you are a true gift to this world ‘
